The gift of experience
I’ve been handed many gifts in my life. Amazing opportunities to help others through my own personal experience. I’ve been giving the gifts of Tourettes, addiction, cancer, and depression just to name a few. I didn’t always have this perspective. As a matter of fact, I only came to realize these as gifts a few days ago.
Each one of these gifts has shaped me through adversity and allowed to share my experience in hopes of helping others who may be going through similar situations. I felt alone with my battles. But millions of people are going through what I am / have. I’m not special or isolated, I’m in a sea of people. I just never had the courage to open up and look for them.
For some reason, I was laying on my couch thinking about leaving rehab 8 years ago. I remembered one of the counselors telling me “I wish you weren’t leaving this area, you could do a lot of good for others here.” It was nice to hear, but I didn’t put any really credence into it. How could I, a guy who had 60 days clean do anything for anyone?
I’ve never felt I have had much to offer. I’ve rarely felt that I was good enough to deliver value to anyone. I mean, Look at my life. I’m 37, single, horrible at relationships, still partying too much and struggling to make it through basic adult life. What could I possible offer anyone? .
I’ve come to the realization that I can offer experience. Not advice, but experience. There’s value in sharing the things we’ve been through that help others feel not so alone. Hopefully it will encourage more people to share their experience and help those around them.
I’m certain that each one of us has something worth sharing that will benefit someone else’s life. It’s called being of service. That’s really what life is about. It’s easy to find meaning and fulfillment by being of service to those around you. Everything else in life is just extra.